viernes, 6 de septiembre de 2013

DON´T OFFER FRIENSHIP TO SOMEONE WHO WANTS LOVE

Hi babes!
Okay, so although your baby boyfriend should obviously be also your friend, your best friend, love and frienship are very different things. And there are some times when someone who loves another person is offered friendship by that other person, and that, my loves, that can´t be, I´m sorry.
Let´s see, imagine, I don´t know, let´s say, Tom and Anna are best friends okay, and Tom is in love with Anna, and he can´t be her friend anymore because that just makes him suffer because now just friendship isn´t the relationship he´s looking forward too. He may be scared to hell to tell her, of course, because if Anna doesn´t feel the same way then their friendship will break, because you can´t be friends with someone you love, that´s like a life rule. So guys I´m just saying that if you´re this Anna girl and you don´t feel the way "Tom" feels, don´t offer him friendship instead of love, because that can be so frustrating and hard. I understand you will be sad to lose that friendship, but i don´t know, maybe stay a little back for a while until his feelings go down a little bit because staying next to him will only hurt more. And if you really care for that other person you should want his best.
Or if you know someone who is a close friend is starting to like you, try to limit contact with that person, because if someone is starting to be into you, and you are all the time joking, playing, or even innocently flirting, that can increase his/her feelings and make he/she think you like her/him. So if you don´t feel the same way, although at first the other person might be a little bit startled by your sudden change of behaviour, the fairest thing for that person is if you do your best to stop that person from liking you, I know we all like to be liked by someone, but after a while, that person will ask for something more than friendship and if you don´t feel the same way and reject him/her, he/she will blame you for making him/her believe you loved him/her.
So although sometimes it might be hard, think if you were that other person, don´t offer friendship to someone who wants love. It´s not fair.

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