jueves, 5 de septiembre de 2013

WHAT IS LOVE?

Okay, I dont know about you, but when someone asks me to define love, i have absolutely no idea what to answer. Because its so much and at the same time so little, so easy and at the same time so complicated.
The official definition of love isnt "somethig that you feel, when you feel attracted towards someone....", no, thats not the definition of love. Love is "choosing someone´s happiness before yours". That is love, caring more about the other person than about your own self. Because you love when you forget about yourself and dedicate to make the one you love happy. You don´t have to buy her a house or a car, that´s not necessary at all. You just have to show her with details, little acts that mean so much.
According to St. Paul,
"Love is patient,love is kind, and is not jealous; love does not brag and is not arrogant, does not act unbecomingly; it does not seek its own, is not provoked, does not take into account a wrong suffered, does not rejoice in unrighteousness, "--Paul in The Holy Bible, I Corinthians 13:4-7

I just happen to love his quote, I think it´s so accurate and beautiful, but its true after all. Lets analyze it a little shall we?

Love is patient - love doesnt pressure the other one, love waits, love respects what other people wants and think.

Love is kind and is not jealous - I think this is very clear, love is goodness and smiles and kisses and hugs, being there always to help, to listen, to help the other stand up or to wipe their tears. It is not jealous or envious, it delights with the other´s happiness.

Love does not brag and it´s not arrogant - Love doesn´t want to show off, love is humble and silent, love doesn´t understand of pride or arrogancy, love is to fall in the other´s arms just the way you are.

Love does not act umbecomingly - love doesn´t get worse, it gets better every day

Love does not seek its own - Love doesnt look for its own good at all, love is forgetting about yourself and dedicate to make the other one happy

Love is not provoked - Love isn´t something you prepare for, isn´t something you plan at all, its the most unexpected and beautiful thing in the world, so just be patient because love waits, it comes when you least expect it.

Love does not take into account a love suffered -  Love forgives, love forgives and forgets over and over, and tries to understand, it doesn´t get mad instantly with no reason.

Love doesn´t rejoice in unrighteousness - Love doesn´t feel dirty or bad, love doesn´t find happiness doing things that are not right.








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